5 Baby Items That Helped Save This Mom’s Sanity

Have you noticed my blogging absence lately? Has it made the heart grow fonder? Are you rolling your eyes? Stop doing that. They’ll stick. As a parent I can say that now.

It turns out kids are life-altering in just about every way you can imagine! A baby is a bundle of joy, love and is a living, breathing bootcamp for patience and problem-solving skills.

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Here are some game-changing baby items that have saved our sanity. I’ve used affiliate links here but I have not been paid to write any of these reviews. (I wish.) We have each of these items except the pillow that I found out about too late.


1. MamaRoo Bouncer by 4moms

We were so, so lucky that my mom and dad thought the swing we initially said we liked¬†was “chintzy” and they got us this bouncer instead.

Space pod car ride. This thing is a hit! #newborn #4moms #babyswing

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Here’s why it’s great for us:

  • Very easy setup
  • Small, light and easy¬†for a new mom to move it around
  • Seat unzips and is machine-washable; plush mobile toys machine washable too
  • You can incline it which is a wonder for babies with reflux who can’t sleep lying flat
  • 5 parent-like motions and 5 speeds
  • SO IMPORTANT:¬†Built-in sounds like Ocean Wave¬†and¬†Car Ride for¬†white noise with the swing function off or on — we use this during every nap. We have two large dogs and squeaky floors;¬†this drowns¬†them out whether he is in the MamaRoo or his crib in the nursery. The noise also helps lull him to sleep. You can even plug in your MP3 player!
  • For tiny babies, there’s an insert¬†you can¬†get as well

Seven months in and this baby swing alternative has been used several times daily, either for bouncing in or for creating white noise. Weight limit is 25 lbs which is a while away but as is common with a lot of swings and bouncers, 4moms says that once independent sitting begins, the baby should no longer use the MamaRoo.

baby in 4moms MamaRoo bouncer

His hat fell over his face a little but he didn’t seem to mind. ūüôā

It is small enough that it doesn’t take up much room at all in his little nursery and despite him¬†sitting on his own we will definitely keep¬†using it for noise at nap time for a while¬†to come.¬†It’s been a game-changer for us and would likely be a¬†wonderful and generous baby shower gift for any new parent, especially if baby has sleep or reflux issues.


2. My Pal Scout / Violet

John went into a 4 month¬†old sleep regression at 3 months old. (So advanced! Haha.) It was — very mildly put — rough from late June until mid-August. We were getting 1.5 to 2 hours of sleep at a time.

A neighbour asked us how the baby was sleeping and we confessed: It was bad. Nothing helped. He even fought naps.

The neighbour told us she had a little plush dog in the crib who’d say “HI, [KIDDO’S NAME]. 10 MINUTES OF BEDTIME MUSIC!” and off to sleep her little lamb would go as it played lullabies softly into the night. It seemed too easy.

Well, it was easy. Scout SAVED us.

Scout the Dog by Leapfrog

Here’s a generic picture. I’d snap one right now but I’d risk waking my baby and that’s bad news for all parties.

This plush puppy soothes the baby to sleep with either 2, 5 or 10 minutes of music that you program yourself from your computer. Leapfrog, you beautiful genius company!

Scout arrived within a couple of days of our ordering him. I programmed him¬†to say John’s name, chose some music from a vast library of lullabies and selected some favourite animals, foods, etc. It took about 10 minutes total and now this kid beams when he hears Scout say, “HI JOHNNY!”

More about Scout:

  • Easy setup
  • 3 AA batteries
  • Plays soothing bedtime music for 2, 5 or 10 minutes which is usually long enough — he amazingly does not wake up again once the music finishes playing
  • Says baby’s name in conversation as¬†paws and tummy are pressed (Word to the wise: I have read that for more uncommon names, it may pronounce the name strangely)
  • Scout will talk about a good variety of moods and colours as well which helps baby as he or she learns to talk
  • Female Violet is available for babies¬†into purple
  • Soft and cuddly when kiddo¬†starts¬†to hug plushies¬†at night
  • Excellent value for the money. The functionaility you get for this price (usually around $25 give or take) is very impressive

It has cut a lot of stress and time out of putting our baby to bed. Now that he is a bit older, when he wakes up I’ll often hear him playing with a talking Scout. It’s really friggin’ cute actually.


3. My Brest Friend Pillow

Breastfeeding or not, this pillow is a back-saver for mom and dad! I wish I had heard about it before we got my my nursing pillow by Jolly Jumper. The JJ one¬†is still great but we’d gladly trade up for this one if we needed a pillow much longer. A woman I know who has it absolutely loves it, and I’m kind of jealous.

Best nursing pillow


  • Has a pocket which is very handy for Kleenexes, pacifiers,¬†burp cloths, etc.
  • Reputedly stays sturdy¬†even for a¬†second baby
  • Great back and wrist support for long feeding sessions, unlike most nursing pillows

No matter which pillow you opt for, they’re great sitting support for baby on the floor as he grows. Mine likes to climb up and over it too. Pillows are great for play time.


4. Ergo Performance Carrier

With two pups that¬†are sometimes impatient for their¬†outside breaks, a¬†carrier has been so essential. I used a Baby Bjorn a couple of times and felt like maybe I was crushing my poor baby boy’s …stuff… the way he was hanging there. It also made my bad shoulder much worse in a short time, so we needed a new solution.

Baby in Baby Bjorn carrier

It looks interesting, but it wasn’t the¬†comfiest.

We read a lot of great things about Ergo carriers and decided on the Performance model because it is mesh-vented and moisture-wicking, which is good as Mom, Dad and Baby are all mini-furnaces.

Ergo Performance carrier in action

A first ride on the escalator in his Ergo had my crazy-haired baby looking all around.

What I love about this carrier:

  • Very comfortable design for mom (or dad!) and baby as weight is distributed across the body and doesn’t pull heavily¬†on¬†shoulders. Great strap¬†padding!
  • Baby’s bum is supported and his legs are kept in froggy position to prevent hip problems
  • Easy to put on and take off; has¬†instructional videos
  • Your arms are miraculously freed which makes cleaning, shopping and just about everything easier
  • Great for hiking with its vented sides, pocket, and hood that is easy folded out for rain, wind or on very bright days
  • Baby can be carried¬†on your front, and eventually also¬†your back or hip
  • Most importantly: Baby loves it

There are many benefits to baby-wearing and John gets a big smile on whenever we have him close to us as we walk around. Often¬†as demonstrated below he gets sleepy — and sometimes he even sleeps — as we walk! It is magical.


Whether you pick one up for your own baby or as a gift for a baby shower, the Ergo baby carrier is far and away one of the best investments you can make for parent and baby. I recommend it to anyone looking for a supportive and comfortable carrier.


5. Graco Pack N’ Play Playard with Bassinet and Change Table

This one is a souped-up version of the playard we have for around the same price Miklos’s parents paid. We kept ours set up in our room for the first few months and John slept in the bassinet until we were more comfortable putting him in his crib.

The bassinet has a very slight incline which was nice; we even tucked a couple of towels on the playard part under the bassinet for when John had reflux at night. It was a cozy little place for him to sleep and we felt at ease knowing he was right there and we could make sure he was still breathing.

Yes, we new parents are a paranoid bunch.

Monkey-approved Graco Pack N' Play

Here’s our version of this playard. Monkey approves.

What I loved about ours + what’s great about this tricked-out version:

  • Reversible wipe-down change table¬†&¬†machine-washable bassinet
  • Safe play area for older on-the-move babies
  • Wheels on the bottom make it easy¬†to move around
  • Easy press-button to pack it up and easy to assemble, comes with a zip-up case
  • This newer one has a diaper stacker and a musical mobile for the same price! The diaper stacker alone would have helped so much, but we kept them in the pack N’ play part, which was¬†good too

We were really lucky to have received this gift. It saved a lot of anxiety having his bed in the room with us, along with an easy-to-clean change station with a click button-push and flipping of the bassinet.


I hope my recommendations can help some new moms, dads and babies to relax a bit and get some much deserved rest. If you liked my post, please Pin or share it!

Have you used any of these baby items? How did you like them?

About Nikki

I've been writing since I was in kindergarten where I Crayola-markered an epic tale of a tiger and a balloon on a stack of lined papers folded into a booklet and stapled along the edge (carefully, and by my teacher). I love DIY, sewing, folksy music, animals and getting out to look at and listen to nature.
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